What is FetCompass

FetCompass is a curated event discovery platform built for the BDSM and kink community — designed so you never have to rely on a well-timed social media post or a well-connected friend to know what's happening near you.

Where this came from

Built out of frustration.

FetCompass started as a personal frustration. For years, finding kink events meant piecing things together: following the right people, hoping an organizer remembered to post, or getting tipped off by someone who happened to catch something in their feed. Great events were happening all the time. Most people just weren't finding them.

So we started asking a simple question: what would event discovery look like if it were actually built for this community? With the features that matter, none of the noise, and a genuine respect for the people using it. FetCompass is that answer — and we're building it in the open, starting with what's most useful and expanding from there.

What if you could just see what's happening — parties, munches, education nights, conventions — in your city, without having to already know the right people?

How it works

Curated, not crowdsourced.

We research and list events ourselves, city by city, and keep listings current on an ongoing basis. Every event is reviewed before it goes live. We edit out unverifiable claims and marketing-speak so what you read is accurate, consistent, and actually useful.

Events are connected to the organizers, venues, educators, and vendors behind them — so you can explore the full picture of who's putting something on, what they've done before, and what's coming up next.

How we operate

Our values.

Editorial Policy

What gets listed.

FetCompass is a curated platform, not an open directory. Every listing is reviewed by a human before it goes live. We verify what we can, correct what's unclear, and decline to list events we can't reasonably verify or that don't meet our community standards. That said, listings on FetCompass are confirmed for basic accuracy but are otherwise unvetted — we are not responsible for the conduct, safety practices, or claims of any event or organizer listed on this platform. Always do your own due diligence before attending any event.

We don't list events that promote non-consent, target minors, or misrepresent themselves. If you believe a listing is inaccurate or inappropriate, contact us and we'll review it promptly.

For Organizers

Your events, your presence.

If we've listed one of your events, we'll reach out. Claiming your organizer profile lets you add images, link your upcoming events, and make sure we have your contact details right.

If an event detail is factually wrong, let us know and we'll correct it. If you'd like an event removed for any reason, just ask — no questions asked. Listings on FetCompass are always free.

For Advertisers

Reach the community.

FetCompass offers tasteful, targeted advertising to businesses and creators serving the kink and BDSM community. We don't work with advertisers whose values conflict with ours, and we'll never let advertising compromise the integrity of our listings.

If you're interested in reaching our audience, get in touch.

Age & Legal

FetCompass lists events intended for consenting adults. By using this site, you confirm that you are of legal adult age in your jurisdiction and that accessing adult-oriented content is legal where you are. We are not responsible for the content, conduct, or policies of third-party events listed on this platform.

Get in Touch

We'd love to hear from you.

Questions, corrections, event submissions, organizer inquiries, or advertising — we read everything and we're reachable.